SUCCESS
S - Sense of direction
U - Understanding
C - Courage
C - Compassion
E - Esteem
S – Self-Acceptance
S – Self-Confidence
FAILURE
F – Frustration
A – Aggressiveness
I – Insecurity
L – Loneliness
U – Uncertainty
R – Resentment
E – Emptiness
It Ain’t Me
Have you ever been in a club and have a chick run up on you,
and kinda tell you to buy her a drink, home?
I mean, it ain’t what I can do, it what I will do,
and attitude is everything
You know what I’m saying
I mean, a chick who ask for nothing will get everything
a chick who ask for everything will get nothing
you may want a man with some consideration
determination, A little conversation
so you might want a little who’s got a job, car, clothes, jewelry
Girl that just ain’t fooling me
Its lot of freaks I could be showing my generosity
Actually the more you speak make me think where I’d rather be
Think I’m that easy shawty
It can’t go that breezy shawty
Plan to treat me like the rest
Take my money because I’m attractive
then kick me off to the curve
Find another dude because it ain’t ME…
The art of business is being a good middle man
Putting people together
Is all about honor & respect
What was true then is true now
Have a plan, stick to it
If you seek peace, plan for war
Speechless
Chee Fung:
Some people are just trying to be a smart arse. But smart people are being a smart arse in a different way.
Me:
Yes. Smart people are smart in different ways. They have inspiration, respect & Cha-Ching.
Chee Fung:
No no no! Smart people don’t need those. Smart people just need Cha-Ching Cha-ching Cha-Ching! *grin* nothing else.. (while snapping fingers)
Me:
Speechless….. *sigh*
Layer Cake
You’re born, you take shit.
You get out in the world, you take more shit.
You climb a little higher, you take less shit.
Till one day you’re up in the rarefied atmosphere and you’ve forgotten what shit even looks like.
Welcome to the layer cake son.
We should not shed tears
That is a surrender of the body to the heart
It is only proof
That we are beings that do not know
What to do without hearts
He who chooses to be a master never does just enough to get by;
nor does he cut corners or attempt to cheat the system.
He who chooses mastery lives his life asking,
‘How can I do more, give more, be more, and thereby accelerate the achievement of my ultimate destiny?’
Being the best of the best…
When storm shut down entire place. You’ll be there.
When hurricane ground the whole place. You’ll be there.
When the holy Lord himself reaches down from heaven
and destroy his good work with winds that rip houses off the ground. You’ll be there.
When there is nothing left but a tear drop. You’ll be there.
To be fast enough who’s going to get there first.
To be strong enough who’s going to last.
To be there to save a life that maybe nobody else could.
The last hope for those who have been left behind.
And if by some miracle you are able to endure it all.
You may have a distinct possibility to live a life that people won’t remember what you did or even your name.
The only difference between you & me,
I don’t wear the ones I’ve lost on my arm.
I asked myself everyday why am I even there for all the situation & people.
And If I can’t answer that for me. I’m certainly not going to try to answer it for you.
There will come a time when you’re going to have to say no.
Everyone is waiting for a miracle to happen.
In this life, you have to find a way to be that miracle.
Save the ones you can. Be there for the ones you can.
The rest. You just have to let go…
I’ve seen angels fall from blinding heights
I’ve seen diamonds cut through harder men
The only question remain. Will I heal… in time?
Dead & Gone
Now think before I risk my life
Take them chances to get my stripe
Think about damn what a life I had
Most of those shit look back just laugh
Some shit still look back just sad
I’ve never been scared, I lived through tragic
Situations could have been dead looking back at it
Most of that shit didn’t even have to happen
But you don’t think about it when you’re out there
No more stress, now I’m straight, now I get it now I take
Time to think, before I make mistakes
Just for my family’s sake,
For my sake.
That part of me left yesterday the heart of me is strong today
Swallow that pill that they call pride
No regrets I’m blessed to say the old me dead and gone away.
The new ME will be alright…
Clingy - Needy.
Clingy - need. I was once.
Self worth, Price? I was once worth nothing.
Why people take others for granted when they start to be clingy - needy?
Being needy or clingy is normal. why do they feel that way? is cause they are unsure, lack of confidence etc. Is not a dreadful thing. All they need is just positive support & positive influence. They will do just fine.
We ourselves NEED too. we NEED to lean on someone or something. We cling on to it. When things are rough. Mentally or emotionally.
In relationship or even friends. Be there for them when they NEED a shoulder to lean on or to cry on or for whatever it is for that matter. I always believe in support.
If your partner or friend is NEEDY or CLINGY. Be understanding, support them, comfort them. Give them a little push to stand & also a space for them to move on their own. The last thing they need from you is to be taken for granted & being shut away.
Cause don’t forget you also NEED. If someone take you for granted or lower your personal value. Walk away. Last resort, cling on to yourself. Need yourself to be strong.
I cling on to myself & build a fortress. But it doesn’t mean i shut away what I sincerely feel inside.
For me I need to be strong so that I can be there for others & the ones that matter to me. I need to be open minded & understanding so that others wont be afraid to say or show what they really feel inside. Without having fear of sounding or looking like a fool or even being de-valued by me.
No offence. Taking people for granted & de-value people is one lousy mindset.
Just imagine if one day you’re in need or clingy, would you want to get shut away & being de-valued?
Let me tell you one part of my past. I have a friend. He was lying on hospital bed & NEED me to see him. But to me that time, he was of no value. He passed away cause of intestine cancer. I’ve regretted, I took him for granted & all I could say till today I’m sorry.
Word of advice.
“You are great, be great for the right reason. You are not that mighty to de-value anyone cause without them, you are of no value at all. “
Guys & Girls. Relationships.
This is a long post, just so you know. So read with patience. Thank you.
Just got back home from.. not clubs k.. from Coffee Bean. Hang out with my friends. He just came back from offshore.
Anyway so went through someone blog & it was about relationship. How men & women are in relationship. Psychological & emotionally.
Everyone has their points of view about both gender. what should be & what shouldn’t be. I’ve talked serious stuff with God knows how many people out there about their personal life, family, financially & relationship. Things that people don’t want to share with anyone. later on below I might tell you things that you will deny but deep down inside you know. Honest raw truth about how we all think & feel after a dreadful breakup. How we all base our past experience to make judgement for the future.
I’ve gone through hell & back again. for those friends that have seen me go through it. It was totally impossible for anyone to came back or i would say it was a miracle. Guess God love me very much & I love myself very much too.
To me, i believe relationship require balance. Love, care, understanding, social life, freedom etc. Where does your priority stand & where do you stand. Are you ready? are you not? what are you looking for? where do you want to go from here?. Those are some of the question that many would have in their mind.
Every master was once a disaster. Everyone was once clingy, naive, foolish, childish or made a total clown of the century of themself. We were honest & sincere. We are human.
I’ll tell you how does it impact psychologically & emotional. How we change to become who we are today. We were clingy, very loving, caring, understanding the best you can ever be for someone you truely love or like. In the end they left you, they don’t appreciate you, they had sex with your best friend, they slept with someone they just met 5 min ago, they go for someone who has more money than you. The heartbreaks session kicks in. The tears, the depression, the denial, you name it. After that session, you move on. You tell yourself “fcuk it” you’re never going to be that way again or treat a person that special way. Cause it hurts. That’s when the mask comes in.
We all stop doing what we do or how we treat someone in the utmost sincere & honest way cause it hurts. So we all decide is best to not give a damn or don’t put to much emotion to it. It discourage you, your mind creates a defense mechanism. We create a wall or we threw our heart into a fridge, lock it & threw the keys.
We change the way we think, we look, we act, we change our life style. Just so it doesn’t resemble or remind us of the past stupidity that we’ve done for someone that we used to love dearly. Some change for the better, some just got worse.
Of course things happen for a reason but the question is, how do we take those reason. How we look at it. Yes it does make us more stronger, better, faster & mature. What you learn & experience can be a double edge sword. Either it brings you above or it pulls you down more without you knowing it, cause of you think or believe what is the best way.
Yes all men & women want their partner to be as hot or handsome as they could be. But what i’ve seen & experience. In the very end of the day. Take away the mask, the money, the fame, the ego, the superficial etc. Is how they make us feel deep down inside. Character, mindset, personality, honest, sincere, understanding. We are all not perfect. But we should strive to be perfect ourself & for the ones that matter. The ones that took you for granted? sorry to say fcuk them (walk away) & thank them (you’re better now cause of them). If you want to be better as a person, as a member of a family, as a friend, in a relationship. “Mix with those that lift you up, not bring you down” Oprah.
Mr:
Mysterious indeed.. has it melted your cold heart yet?
You got your armor on isn’t it? for God knows how long.
Me:
I have not much armor left… Got strip off from me. Whatever is left of me, whatever i am. I fell into the mist of mystery.
Mr:
The only question remain. Will you heal… in time?
Just got home from a night out with my friends at Thai bar. But tonight is different, I think. With a Vodka Martini in my hand, a lot went through my mind. Took out my phone make a call but no answer.
As the people around me get drunk & start dancing. I walked around a little & went back to sit. They took my drink & said “I give this to a girl”. I said “sure go ahead’. They came back & asked me “Hey go hit on girls man”. I smiled, walked away & get myself another drink.
The song was loud, people were drunk, & my mind was silent. I took out a cigarette & was about to light it, I said to myself “if a certain someone is around, I wouldn’t even touch this”. As I look at the pool table it reminds me of a night. It was a night whatever there is around. It doesn’t matter.
I guess that certain someone struck me in a way & all I’m doing is standing outside looking in.
But I guess I was just dreaming…
Vodka Martini
Ladies & gentlemen. I would like to introduce to you this classic James Bond cocktail Vodka Martini. I am very inspired from the movie. “Shaken, not stirred” a classic phrase from James Bond.
I personally have interest for alcohol but I’m not a alcoholic or drink 7 days a week ok. I just like to appreciate the taste. Like how you appreciate wine. You smell it, take a sip. Just dwell it in. Of course not till you get drunk.
This drink just give you a different feeling. How you hold it, how you stand, how you present yourself a long with the cocktail. It tells a lot if you know more or few about body language. The best body language is definitely done by James Bond himself. The look, the posture, everything thing about it.
The drink itself is just pure class & mysterious. Simple but complicated as the taste. Is as clear as water but are you sure?… What more can I express but is for you to try it & appreciate it. But of course not everyone will like it too. Anyway… Till next time.
Cheers Mr Bond & Ladies… I’ve got business to attend.
Seven Steps to a Wealthy Life
Ladies & gentlemen, recently I joined myself into this e-coaching by James Arthur Ray. How I got to know him is from one of the books I’ve read called “The Secret” I believe most of you have heard it & i strongly recommend it.
Is not that I’m not happy about my life or anything but is just me. I don’t stay long at one place. I get my arse moving. Mentally & emotionally. I have a strong belief in personal improvement. That’s what I’ve been doing for the past 2 years.
I received my 1st e-coaching email today & is my 1st lesson. Easy to read, but is hard to stick with in your daily life.
These are the points of course not the whole article. If you want to read the whole thing, register yourself in it =P.
Step 1: Come on in, the Water’s Fine.
- Stop making excuses and start getting what you want.
- Break through the unconscious chains of old beliefs and habits.
- Go beyond goals and create a vision-then make your vision come true.
- Discover the universal laws.
- Learn to manifest not just money, but true abundance.
- Ignite your entrepreneurial spirit to accelerate your spiritual and business growth.
Courage
“Whatever you do, you need courage.
Whatever course you decide upon there’s always someone to tell you you’re wrong. There are always difficulties arising which tempt you to believe that your critics are right. To map out a course of action, and follow it to the end, requires the same courage a soldier needs.
Peace has its victories but it takes brave men to win them.”
Hush…
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